Love the touchie!

I am a cuddler... I know not a shocking revelation to anyone here! But I thought I would wright about it none the less! As you all know I have no, nor do I understand in others personal space. I blame and thank my family. You have all heard the stories of the lack of privacy in my family. The multiple people not only in the bathroom but in the shower. 11 of us in one bed. Using each other as human chairs and blankets!

My touchie is a quality I both love and loath, but mostly love, about myself!

Love for the following reasons:
If you need a hug Jan's your girl.
If you need a pat on the back b/c of a job well done, Jan is first in line.
If you need a hand to hold (without fingers) in good times or bad Jan's hands are small but equal to the task.
If you need a reassuring shoulder squeeze Jan can squeeze with the best of them.
If you need a place to rest your weary head Jan has the shoulders of a linebacker!
If you need a gentle nudge to motivate you in times of fear or hesitation, Jan is small but stout.
If you need someone to run their fingers through your hair Jan will even do that folks, why, BECAUSE SHE HAS NO PERSONAL SPACE... which is our segway into the reasons for loathing!

Loath for the following reasons:
Jan never lets go first and apologizes if she has made you feel uncomfortable, she doesn't know when to stop.
Jan's pats on the back, like the hugs, are never ending and have been blamed for bruises and/or chapping the receivers back.
Jan's hands get sweaty real fast which makes the whole hand holding thing a little awkward and sometimes sticky.
Jan doesn't know her own freakish strength sometimes and has injured those with the more delicate shoulders.
Jan has her dad and her swim coaches to thank for the shoulders!
( Just a quick side note Jan would like to apologize for talking in third person, but once she started she couldn't stop)
Jan's nudging which more often than not unprompted by the receiver has been cause for explanation and even humiliation.
And ditto the above reason for the fingers through the hair segment!

So, in closing Jan would like to thank all of you who have endured all of her Lovin', Touchin', and Squeezin and she can't wait to hug on you for an inappropriately long time again soon!